STOP Breaking Your Own Heart !!
Juni 06, 2017
"If a man doesn't call you, it's because he
doesn't want to call you.
If he doesn't invite you to go out, it's because he
doesn't want to see you.
If he treats you like shit, it'ss because he doesn't
care.
If he let you go, it's because he doesn't want to be
with you.
If a man says "I am not ready, but you are the
love of my life and the only one that I want, but now is not the right time."
It's simple because he doesn't want you.
Don't keep playing his confusing games, don't justify
him.
When a man want to be with a woman, he stays with her
without lies, excuses and complications.
Stop being naive, and stop justifiying his every
excuse and complication and put yourself first.
You do not need someone that doesn't see your worth.
You deserve a man that knows you re worth it, and
fight for you every day.
STOP BREAKING YOUR OWN HEART for someone who probably
won't even be as good as you except, and give yourself an oppoturnity to be
happy and be with someone who actually deserves you"
Beb, ngena banget gak sih
abis baca sederet kalimat diatas? Diaku sih ngena banget beb, entah karena efek
baperan entah apa, yang pasti hati jadi bilang ‘iya’. Kata-kata lugas diatas
adalah realita, kalau kata bebeb inces sih, terpampang nyata. *Hahaha
Gak bisa dipungkiri banyak
dari kaum perempuan yang apabila sudah mencintai seseorang, sering terperangkap
menjadi people pleasure. Kasarnya everything I do, I do it for you.
*Nah lho!!
Ayo ngacung sapa aja yang
pernah jadi people pleasure? seketika
otak berasa ngefreeze gitu, kesihir sama wajah tampan sang kekasih, jadi lupa
narok akal sehat dimana, jadi lupa tata krama di titipin dimana, lupa bawa
harga diri. Apapun dilakukan untuk menyenangkan sang kekasih, sementara diri
sendiri diabaikan.
Bahaya bangetkan kalo udah
masuk dalam hubungan yang didasari oleh people
pleasure? Ada sebagian pria yang wise,
yang tahu bagaimana menghargai wanita yang tulus, yang mencintai dia, yang
setipe people pleasure macam begini.
Tapi ada juga tipe pria bajingan yang dikasih cinta seluas samudra sekalipun
tetep aja gak bersyukur dan malah ga menghargai. Pria yang merasa benar di atas
prinsipnya sendiri. *Gak banget kan?
Nasehat diatas, cukuplah
buat kamu beb, buat ngaca, buat mematut diri, jangan mau lama-lama jadi people pleasure. Sudah saatnya kamu
mencintai diri kamu sendiri, lupakan dia yang bahkan gak tau caranya bersyukur.
Diluar sana masih banyak pria-pria dewasa yang gak ngasuh anak kecil didalam
dirinya.
Move on yah
beb!!
Life is too short to worry about love ....
- d14N -
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